I can't stand it when people on dating apps, open the conversation with; "hey, how's it going" ❓ ❗ ❓ ❗ ❓ What is that?! What a bore. With all the people in the online world, do you really think "Hey, how's it going?" is going to cut it... BE INTERESTING. I know women are … Continue reading Say yes to the Unicorn
It's been crickets lately on my blog. The truth is, I've been busy - yes, I'm using the "busy" excuse - which really isn't an excuse because I enjoy writing and I hate that I haven't given myself enough time to do what I find fun! I've decided to move interstate. So, amongst the move-planning … Continue reading Thinking about me… thinking about ME!
So I’m sitting at the airport awaiting my domestic flight and there is a very cute man sitting next to me. I won’t lie, I strategically placed myself when I saw him. Does anyone else do that? I do – ALL the time!! I’ve been sitting here for 30 minutes, with minimal dialogue because whilst … Continue reading Irrational fear of rejection
I went on a date. It is common knowledge that in the first 10 minutes of a date you are able to answer two paramount questions, Am I attracted to you? Is this going to be a good date? For me, it was a hell yeah for both questions. It was ON. Thank the Gods … Continue reading The Art of Listening
I’m going to tell you a story about a woman. A woman who was a man repeller. The story is about me. Yes, this is my story. *sigh* It’s been 10 weeks. 10 weeks of strong nay, impressively powerful men repelling. It all started when the love of my life (aka Mr Tokyo, aka my … Continue reading Me, the Man Repeller.
We are all told, “you’ll find someone when you are not looking” 🙄 🙄 🙄 🙄 What they mean is if you don’t act desperato like you obviously are… You know, when you see a hot guy walk across the street and start imaging your wedding. We’ve all been there! What they SHOULD really … Continue reading How to ‘look’ when you’re trying not to ‘look’, like your ‘looking’
I have this weird theory that we each have about 7-9 soul mates out in the big old world. I have no idea how I came up with these numbers, there is no rational or logical reason. I also believe that we have the opportunity* to meet all 7-9 in our life, however the big … Continue reading I met my soul mate in Japan.
One of my number one core values is, Communication Most people are very average at communicating on a personal level. Technology and the last generation of parenting (I believe) is partially to blame. We just don’t value human voice when connecting as much as we used to. 😦 Good communicators are not the ones who … Continue reading Being an ace communicator in our world today
I went to Japan!!! It was so incredible. If you haven’t been, I highly recommend going. The cherry blossoms were in full bloom the entire trip and … IT WAS FABULOUS. So here goes, MY FAILED One-Night Stand. *face palm* Full disclosure, I’ve never had a ONS before… Which is WEIRD because I’m a very … Continue reading My failed one-night stand in Tokyo.
For context, please read Bach 1, 2 and 3 and proceeding posts re my personal dating life. Bloggers, I have SO MUCH TO FILL YOU IN. I have actually been avoiding blogging because I did not want to come to terms with how I’m feeling and how god damn fucking confused and conflicted I am … Continue reading Update from the Bachelor pad